Wedding

Lake Norman by Lacey R Butler

dreamy lakeside love.

dreamy lakeside love.

I am really, really truly lucky in life. Blessed.

Without giving away too much personal info for the couple, they met on a dating site. I know some people are still hesitant about them, but more often I am doing weddings from couples that met there. Message me to ask which dating site. :)

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I love candid expressions.

I love candid expressions.

Random photo probably only I like. Reflection of chairs outside and one person inside in the exact right position to look like she’s sitting on the chair. If you ever see me shooting and are like what the heck is she doing..I’m doing something like this. Not only does it entertain me but it probably beats me simply staring at you waiting for a moment. You know? It’s a little less intense. While I’m rambling about me, it’s a tiny bit of a drive from Asheville to this location, but I’m used to that. I usually listen to music to get in the zone, maybe eat an M&M Blizzard or a Krispy Kreme for that sugar high. For some reason I decided on self help videos and water only for the two hour drive down so by the time I got there, I was really, like… ready for a nap. That wasn’t my best idea for pre-wedding.If you can imagine it, as soon as I got on the property, ya’ll, I kid you not, I smiled. Like, I genuinely started grinning because it was GORGEOUS with the lake background and small pool and hot tubs and bar and palm trees and whatnot. Life is funny like that. The clouds were perfect puffy companions to a Carolina blue sky with the breeze whispering a promise of summer across the lake. I’m not joking when I say from that second I was teleported into someone else’s romantic heaven. All that joy I felt was even before seeing anyone there. And when I did, my first glimpse was of a bridesmaids decorating corpses for the “till death do us” underlying theme (not shown here.. I also left out the tiny fake spider in the brides bouquet. I needed to cull some of the images from the blog post). It was like, ok, this is a gorgeous day with some cool people. And it really was.

Random photo probably only I like. Reflection of chairs outside and one person inside in the exact right position to look like she’s sitting on the chair. If you ever see me shooting and are like what the heck is she doing..I’m doing something like this. Not only does it entertain me but it probably beats me simply staring at you waiting for a moment. You know? It’s a little less intense.

While I’m rambling about me, it’s a tiny bit of a drive from Asheville to this location, but I’m used to that. I usually listen to music to get in the zone, maybe eat an M&M Blizzard or a Krispy Kreme for that sugar high. For some reason I decided on self help videos and water only for the two hour drive down so by the time I got there, I was really, like… ready for a nap. That wasn’t my best idea for pre-wedding.

If you can imagine it, as soon as I got on the property, ya’ll, I kid you not, I smiled. Like, I genuinely started grinning because it was GORGEOUS with the lake background and small pool and hot tubs and bar and palm trees and whatnot. Life is funny like that. The clouds were perfect puffy companions to a Carolina blue sky with the breeze whispering a promise of summer across the lake. I’m not joking when I say from that second I was teleported into someone else’s romantic heaven.

All that joy I felt was even before seeing anyone there. And when I did, my first glimpse was of a bridesmaids decorating corpses for the “till death do us” underlying theme (not shown here.. I also left out the tiny fake spider in the brides bouquet. I needed to cull some of the images from the blog post). It was like, ok, this is a gorgeous day with some cool people.

And it really was.

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They both kept their eyes tight shut to save it for that moment at the altar. But they did want to make sure I got a photo of them touching per-ceremony.

They both kept their eyes tight shut to save it for that moment at the altar. But they did want to make sure I got a photo of them touching per-ceremony.

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The face that says I’m ready. I’m excited. Let’s do this!

The face that says I’m ready. I’m excited. Let’s do this!

Holy smokes! Stunning bride seeing her groom waiting!

Holy smokes! Stunning bride seeing her groom waiting!

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Yes, they DID do their entrance to “I got chills, they’re multiplying” and totally admire one another while dancing up a storm all the way down the beautiful stone steps and up the stone walk to the waiting guests.

Yes, they DID do their entrance to “I got chills, they’re multiplying” and totally admire one another while dancing up a storm all the way down the beautiful stone steps and up the stone walk to the waiting guests.

Somewhere around this image I started balling. I had to stop shooting for a second because my camera may not have been waterproof enough to handle it. Not sure. But you know what, this couple has the perfect balance of silly and passion and it just is inspirational. Big fan over here!

Somewhere around this image I started balling. I had to stop shooting for a second because my camera may not have been waterproof enough to handle it. Not sure. But you know what, this couple has the perfect balance of silly and passion and it just is inspirational. Big fan over here!

Ok, so when you love someone you make sacrifices, right? And this bridesmaid missed her own college graduation so the bride said well we are doing a little something something and they did a mock ceremony and I loved them all the more.

Ok, so when you love someone you make sacrifices, right? And this bridesmaid missed her own college graduation so the bride said well we are doing a little something something and they did a mock ceremony and I loved them all the more.

Ok, it is really easy for me to be like you know what you should do? Totally go in the water on your wedding day in clothes you spent a fortune of money and time to find. But these two agreed. THANK YOU BOTH! I Love love love couples that hire me to do my thing and then will agree to it.  I kicked off my shoes and socks and joined them, rather pointlessly since I have the lenses to do it from the shore. But it was fun and they weren’t alone being cold and wet after that. In fact, I had sand in my socks all evening long because at a wedding you dont get time to clean up when you’re the photographer- you just jump right to the next thing.

Ok, it is really easy for me to be like you know what you should do? Totally go in the water on your wedding day in clothes you spent a fortune of money and time to find. But these two agreed. THANK YOU BOTH! I Love love love couples that hire me to do my thing and then will agree to it. I kicked off my shoes and socks and joined them, rather pointlessly since I have the lenses to do it from the shore. But it was fun and they weren’t alone being cold and wet after that. In fact, I had sand in my socks all evening long because at a wedding you dont get time to clean up when you’re the photographer- you just jump right to the next thing.

Backlit by the sunset, super romantic.

Backlit by the sunset, super romantic.

perfect expression, Nicole! I love it.

perfect expression, Nicole! I love it.

fireworks! just a tiny bit of photoshop went into this image, but so worth it.

fireworks! just a tiny bit of photoshop went into this image, but so worth it.

All my love and best wishes to the bride and groom! Your love and connection are truly beautiful. <3 Lacey

Bass Lake by Lacey R Butler

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Sometimes I struggle with what to say after a wedding. I hate when I read other peoples wedding posts and they sound as cookie cutter as the images (ok, I’m just saying) and they rave about how perfect everything is, and how they are going to be lifelong friends with the clients.

Sometimes the truth is a better story: despite a 30 minute delay to the start of their sunset wedding, and the rain starting immediately when it was finally show time, the wedding still took place with love and grace- and as far as I know, as planned. The plum colors and the flowers and yes- even the rain- were beautiful. The guests didn’t leave when everything became wet, but they did take shelter nearby, observing from a distance. In a way it created a dynamic sense of what a new couple is- part of a whole community of family and friends, but separate unto itself- a ship in an ocean.

After the ceremony, the rain tapered. My equipment was completely wet and blurry and rain was draining off the roof of the pergola into my bag on my equipment for some time. Experience paid off and despite the challenges, success!

Moments I’ve shown here include the brides mother and father doing a choreographed dance to like a 15 song montage. Each sound clip they’d switch their dance, it was really great! I also thought the friends who got on their hands and knees to dry the dance floor post rain were just lovely (omitted here because they maybe didn’t want that shared, not sure). Private laughs and tears are some of my very favorite..

Thank you so much for allowing me to work with you on your wedding day! I hope I hear from you and hear about your future together.

Omni Grove Park Inn | Wedding Photography by Lacey R Butler

Non-stop laughter and smiles, all day!

Non-stop laughter and smiles, all day!

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as far as I know they are still there, partying near the fireplace…

as far as I know they are still there, partying near the fireplace…

And thanks to the second shooter for this image— the best man apparently lost a bet of some kind, not only performing in a diaper for the duration of Stroke It (ooh man) but giving a bit of a lap dance to the beautiful bride. Jean was in hysterics, …

And thanks to the second shooter for this image— the best man apparently lost a bet of some kind, not only performing in a diaper for the duration of Stroke It (ooh man) but giving a bit of a lap dance to the beautiful bride. Jean was in hysterics, and as you can see so was her groom.

Many, many thanks to the fabulous vendors at this event.. Nikki at Carolina Love Events and her assistant were both amazing. I was not joking, Nikki, when I said the day seemed to be more smooth than other big events I’ve had in recent memory. In addition, Nikki was easy to work with, so thank you! Vanessa Sogan at About Face FX did an amazing job on hair and makeup. Huge shout out for Omni Grove Park Inn, which was gracious each time I had a question or need, and provided fantastic visuals and service for all. Floral décor and bouquet all from Swannanoa Flower Shop. And of course- a huge thank you to Wes and Jean. Congratulations and I hope to work with you again one day soon.

Deidre & James | Memory Mountain Lodge by Lacey R Butler

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Who ordered the cold weather? Man, I was so cold for their wedding I wore a coat and a sweater over whatever I’d worn. I think I’m still a Florida chick or something. Thin blood… Deidre, meanwhile, must have been totally floating in inner warmth because she ran around all day without so much as a shrug on her shoulders.

A wedding gift the couples child received— I like that Mom and Grandmother are in the photo, too.

A wedding gift the couples child received— I like that Mom and Grandmother are in the photo, too.

The bride hand made these shawls for her mother and mother in law. So thoughtful and beautiful.

The bride hand made these shawls for her mother and mother in law. So thoughtful and beautiful.

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Many warm wishes to Deidre and James and their family and friends. Thank you for being so hospitable and wonderful to work with. I imagine ya’ll dancing around your home, all the time, and I hope I’m right… xoxoxo ~Lacey

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