Maternity by Lacey R Butler

These two lovelies have met their new daughter already, and soon I’ll get to photograph her- I can’t wait!

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Although I don’t know them well, I met Ashley initially when she was… probably younger than 8. After all these years have passed, it was interesting to see her again, and in a way an amazing experience to see the similarities in how I recall her as well as the amazing changes in her life. She’s a very warm and inquisitive person- something that has withstood her life. I think some things are innate for each of us.

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Flattering is not the right word for how it felt to be remembered and chosen to do this session for her. There are so many photographers- I have a few friends as well as several people who initially chose me as their wedding photographer and then went on to becoming wonderful photographers in their own right. There are so many people she knows, I am sure, or who someone she knows would recommend, but for some reason she gravitated to me and my work. Thank you Ashley!

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Ashley’s maternity session included her partner, Richard, a friend of my sons- hence Ashley circling back into my life. The world is vast but very small, it’s sometimes like we really are magnets… pulled back into one anothers lives. This session was at Lake Crabtree, which was incredibly packed, but we made it work, of course. The day before, the sunset over the lake was phenomenal but the very next day it was a bit overcast… still gorgeous though. Photoshop and I worked to make the sky stand out.

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In just about a week, I’ll get to meet their beautiful daughter for a baby session.. check back!

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Pandemic Life and Asheville by Lacey R Butler

Hello, hello!

I hope you and those you love remain healthy.

For my part, moving to a new city just weeks before we realized Covid-19 was going to crush everything we knew, really hit me hard. I’m not complaining- I have so far been quite fortunate to stay well, my family has all stayed safe and followed protocols as best they were able. The few people I know who tested positive have pulled through alright. My side business blossomed, I got a cat, a friend. The fish are struggling, I must admit.

I am sure you are aware of the massive social and political upheaval across our nation (and frankly the world, but I think most of us have been inundated by- and struggling to process- what is local to us). I mention it only because this entire year, so far, has seemed to be one of change and growth in a burn-the-house-down sort of way. We usually make our choices, we live our time our own way- ok, I’m finding it hard to reword what JRR Tolkien already expressed perfectly in his character Gandolf- “all you have to do is decide what to do with the time that is given to you.” I love that quote.

But this season sort of turned that brutal truth on its head, did it not? I suppose types like Elon Musk maybe are still doing what they set out to do this year (he is in Mars, right??). As for me, starting over in a new city has been thwarted, both in business and in personal life. What few weddings I had booked when I moved here canceled for Covid concerns, understandably and my heart moves for how that must feel. Personally, of course, I was waylaid in meeting new friends and building a sense of community. But given that, I’ve found this year helpful in burning away some of the outer layer I’d concealed myself behind.

I realize this is a very serious post, but I did want to admit that I developed a good case of apathy for quite some time. At the heart of doing nothing, I could sit with myself and find happiness. I can smile (behind a mask) for no reason at all. And again, I am finding beauty in the world and appreciating it everywhere I can go (“can go” really should be underlined in this sentence).

The mountains are already home. They have been since before I moved here. And when Covid started, and I ran back to Raleigh, I found I missed them all too much. Within days, I couldn’t wait to come back. And so I did.

Below, I’ve added a photo of myself impersoning the gray Wizard himself, shouting at a specter, you shall not pass. I think it’s pretty funny. If you want to know how it was created, let me know and I’ll write a post about that. Side note- you can see more of my work on my Instagram page (Photolace), but I deleted my Facebook Biz page. It seemed redundant to me, and I am tired of spinning my wheels so many places.

I have some photo work coming up and some I’ve never shared, and so I will once again bring this page to life. Maybe more than it’s been in years.

I hope you, reading this long post (one of the things I learned during Covid was what tl;dr means. This post probably applies…) are well, safe, happy and expanding into new life.

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A Day at the Gardens by Lacey R Butler

Tiny stars dancing in the breeze while sunshine melts through their petals: the ornament of North Carolina spring. Every years I fall again for this romance of the earth. Forsythia and friends, yellow, white, pink against the strength of a Carolina blue sky. I know I’m not the only one. I hope you enjoy the images!

Barn at Valhalla by Lacey R Butler

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When I met Sharon, I was immediately put at ease because she’s real. She’s beautiful, sophisticated, and somehow still down to earth. She’s just friendly good people, as they say. I believe she’s a dietician, and it took quite a bit of effort not say how do I easily lose this weight I’m gaining from eating and drinking every night, all night long? Even I know the answer to that one… Anyway, Sharon told me she and Jim had been good friends for a while, and I got the sense it was a blossomed slowly into things that won their hearts over to one another.

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On Christmas Eve I found myself eager not for presents under trees, or even at that moment for the celebrations later with my children, but to see this very handsome couple wed. It is always a gift to do what I do.

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The only ones at their private elopement ceremony were the minister, her brother as a witness, and myself. I doubled as a photographer and witness extraordinare. Always an honor to be at a wedding, let alone to sign as witness. Thank you both for choosing to work with me on your beautiful day.

Venue: the Barn at Valhalla

Flowers: Fallons Flowers

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Omni Grove Park Inn | Wedding Photography by Lacey R Butler

Non-stop laughter and smiles, all day!

Non-stop laughter and smiles, all day!

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as far as I know they are still there, partying near the fireplace…

as far as I know they are still there, partying near the fireplace…

And thanks to the second shooter for this image— the best man apparently lost a bet of some kind, not only performing in a diaper for the duration of Stroke It (ooh man) but giving a bit of a lap dance to the beautiful bride. Jean was in hysterics, …

And thanks to the second shooter for this image— the best man apparently lost a bet of some kind, not only performing in a diaper for the duration of Stroke It (ooh man) but giving a bit of a lap dance to the beautiful bride. Jean was in hysterics, and as you can see so was her groom.

Many, many thanks to the fabulous vendors at this event.. Nikki at Carolina Love Events and her assistant were both amazing. I was not joking, Nikki, when I said the day seemed to be more smooth than other big events I’ve had in recent memory. In addition, Nikki was easy to work with, so thank you! Vanessa Sogan at About Face FX did an amazing job on hair and makeup. Huge shout out for Omni Grove Park Inn, which was gracious each time I had a question or need, and provided fantastic visuals and service for all. Floral décor and bouquet all from Swannanoa Flower Shop. And of course- a huge thank you to Wes and Jean. Congratulations and I hope to work with you again one day soon.

Deidre & James | Memory Mountain Lodge by Lacey R Butler

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Who ordered the cold weather? Man, I was so cold for their wedding I wore a coat and a sweater over whatever I’d worn. I think I’m still a Florida chick or something. Thin blood… Deidre, meanwhile, must have been totally floating in inner warmth because she ran around all day without so much as a shrug on her shoulders.

A wedding gift the couples child received— I like that Mom and Grandmother are in the photo, too.

A wedding gift the couples child received— I like that Mom and Grandmother are in the photo, too.

The bride hand made these shawls for her mother and mother in law. So thoughtful and beautiful.

The bride hand made these shawls for her mother and mother in law. So thoughtful and beautiful.

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Many warm wishes to Deidre and James and their family and friends. Thank you for being so hospitable and wonderful to work with. I imagine ya’ll dancing around your home, all the time, and I hope I’m right… xoxoxo ~Lacey

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